Since at least the time of Abraham Lincoln, presidents have sent letters of condolence to the families of service members killed in action, whether the deaths came by hostile fire or in an accident.

So after Gregg Keesling’s son killed himself in Iraq in June, he expected his family would receive a letter from President Barack Obama. What they got instead was a call from an Army official telling them that they were not eligible because their son had committed suicide.

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